If You are a President

We can't deny the fact that being a president is such a big challenge. There are many people who aims to that position but there are only very few who are lucky to succeed on their aspiration.

Yes! indeed! we can call them as the lucky ones, in the since that a person needs to have the qualifications to run for the said position. He/she needs to be strong enough to face all the trials that may come on her way. And most of all you need to be loved by many to win the hearts of the people and to have the most number of votes.

and if you are given the chance to become the president of the Philippines, what are your goals?

What Would Be the New Reforms?

The newly elected president of the Republic of the Philippines, no other than Pres. Benigno Simeon Cojuangco Aquino III is now the 15th president of the Philippine Republic that will be declared on June 30, 2010.

Many people out there, have lots of questions on their mind regarding on his upcoming management. What would be the new reforms? Will he be a good president of the country?

Those are only a few questions that may came across our mind.

Whatever the kind of management he may have, let's just wait and see how many of his opponents will try to have impeachment complains against him during his term and will he be able to fight if ever just like what the small but terrible Pres. Gloria Macapagal Arroyo did?

Whatever is the answer of the above questions, let's just hope for the best.
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Lets's Pray & Give Thanksto Him

From the moment you wake up in the morning, what is the first thing you do? Some of you may just go directly to their bathroom and take a shower especially if I’Sd already time for work or school. Surely you’ll be in a hurry to do everything from taking a bath, brushing your teeth and eating breakfast.

Wait! You’ve forgot something…don’t forget to pray and thanks God for giving you another wonderful day to live. Acknowledge Him in everything such as a job well done, good health, successful career, safe trip etc. I am sure, you’ll a very nice day a head of you.

No matter how busy our life seems. We should not forget to thank Him for everything. Such as for the guidance that he gave us in our daily undertakings and of course for giving us the right direction whenever we feel weary. Our heavenly father is always there never gets tired in guiding us.

It is a must that in our day to day activities WE SHOULD not ever forget Him so that He will always there to lead us with our journey.

PLANNING FOR A TRIP? Just a Simple REMINDER"

Are you planning for a vacation/trip thousand miles away from home? What are the preparations you’ve been doing and what are the activities you plan to do during the entire trip? And what are the particular places you wanted to visit?

Yeah, planning for a trip is really exhausting sometimes coz you need to plan everything. The things that you are going to bring, time and of course financial matters. You always think of how much will you spend during the trip. This is really important in the sense that it would be really hard for you to run out of money while away from home. Specially if the place you’re going to visit is new to you and you don’t have anyone to give you company.

What are your plans? Probably, you need to schedule every activity for you to avoid wasting your time. So that when you got home you have lots of memories to share with your family and friends.

How about the activities that you are planning to do? In this matter, one should be very cautions coz you might never know that you are risking your life with that kind of activity that you are planning to do. Make sure that all the materials you might be using are complete. Bear in mind that “prevention is better than cure”. This is true, coz we are all aware of the tragedies that occur due to leisure activities. No one will ever know when an accident may occur. One more thing, you have to be careful with your belongings. Put them in a safe place, remember there are lots of snatchers.




Sometimes, having a vacation could be very stressful. Most especially if you have high expectations on the place that you are going to visit. It would be best not to expect that much unless you have gone to that place before. Yes, we can’t deny the fact that everyone of us wanted to see other places, explore their natural resources, meet new people, know their culture etc. But, of course, we can’t also deny the fact that there is no other place like HOME.

MANNERS is IMPORTANT

Manners are a sensitive awareness of the feelings of others. If you have that awareness, you have good manners, no matter what fork you use. - Emily Post

In our present society we are now seeing a lot of people with bad manners and it is hard to judge them on where they got that attitude. If it is outside or on their own home. We can say that may be 80% were imitation from their friends most specifically if their parents don’t care that much on the kind of people their kids associate with them and if they are always busy with their work and always away from home.
It is a true that parents want the best for their kids, and they don’t generally set their kids up for failure on purpose. Though, it is certainly possible that parents can unknowingly encourage bad manners. This can happen from the daily behaviors of the parents at home, they way the parents interact with other people outside the home.

Manners is really important. The impression we may have will leave a plant in every person we come in contact with. And if our manners are poor, this will become part of our social reputation.

Etiquette is a code of behavior that when used opens more windows of opportunity to success in all walks of life.

TEACHERS : WHAT A REMARKABLE PROFESSION!!!!

One of the professions that I admired most are the Teachers. Most, especially the Math teachers. Because it is the Mathematics which plays a vital role in our daily living. Yes! that is why one cannot afford to be ignorant in this field of learning. In the sense that the present world we live in is so mathematical. Our daily activities always involve mathematics.

Elementary math teacher are being challenged because it is where initial mathematics foundation is being developed. Such as addition, subtraction, multiplication and division. One may found his/her math easier when they have a good foundation on the said subject during their elementary years.

That is why it is important that the teacher is thoroughly grounded in the subject matter. So that he will gain respect from his students. And of course it is also important that he may be able to impart his subject matter properly to his students.

FOCUS on the IMPORTANT THINGS IN LIFE

What are the importance things in your life that you focus on? Some, maybe on their family, health, personal goals and on their lifestyle.

Health plays a vital role in achieving what you wanted in your life. Like for example, when you apply for a job and on your medical tests shows that you have a health problem. Surely! You can’t have that job no matter how qualified you are for that certain job. It is a must that we have to take good care of our health always.
At times, you may be surprise, why you can’t achieve all that you wanted. Despite the fact that you’re rich and intelligent.

Try to look the people around you. You will find out that most of them are busy working and if not studying (if they are student). They work hard for them to achieve their goals. And you? Busy roaming around with friends, clubbing, outing etc. With this, you are quite literally wasting your life away.

But don’t worry, you are not alone coz we are all the same at some point. Fond of doing mindless and useless tasks. Such as watching tv, texting and hanging out with friends.

All the these stuff which are non-important and non-urgent should be removed from your life.

So, let us focused on the important tasks. Let us all stop wasting time (and our life).

Try to imitate this cat



just an animal but he/she has focus..

FOLLOW the GOLDEN RULE

Are you familiar with the Golden Rule which states that “Do not Do unto others as you would have others do unto you”. Yeah, we should treat others the way we wanted to be treated.

This old and honorable maxim is often thought by teachers in schools. They try to inculcate to children the importance of the said Rule. Parents also should try their best to teach their kids personal values and moral behavior coz as parents you served as the mirror to your siblings. Teach them with compassion on how they should treat others such as with respect, loved, honesty etc.

Yes! we have our own individual differences and we have to understand other people deeply by that. So that they will understand us also in terms of our own flows.

BEAUTY IS MORE THAN SKIN DEEP

There are many people who define beauty as the physical appearance of ones person. Like for example whenever you see a sexy lady walking down the street who has a pretty face, tantalizing eyes, pointed nose, smooth skin, nice height (qualified for Beauty Pageant) etc. While the rest says that beauty is not merely on looks or the physical appearance of a person. But, it is about personality and depth of character. Good attitude is a must as what they said.

Being beautiful and attractive are different, though it is confusing as being one and many view that it connotes the same meaning. It is the physical appearance which is more artificial because of technology and inventions and discoveries on beauty products. The Belo Medical Group and the Avon Company are widely known because of its innovative beauty products.





We as human are being attracted to certain features and figures which belong to other people because of our desire to be one of them. And we also desire to have beautiful and handsome kids thus hoping to marry a person who has a healthy gene. That’s why, we subconsciously look for these attributes in our potential partners

Beauty is about far more than looks. It is different when we look for a potential partner; firstly we take into considerations on the personality and depth of character. Yeah, we look for the inner beauty that nobody can see unless you yourself will try to discover. Bear in mind that beauty fades as time goes along. The attitude serves as a big factor in a success of a relationship. No matter how pretty your girlfriend is if you two don’t get along well with each other. Your attitudes are opposite polls. Then, it’s a total disaster!

So, looking for a mate? Looks could be very deceiving. Discover the true beauty that a person has and you can see it’s like MAGIC In Heaven In Heaven In Heaven when you finally see it.

""ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS""

I know that most of you may agree with the above statement. This expression is very common to us and we often used that expression in order to express our own ideas or beliefs on a particular situation. Many people believe that this expression is of greater determinant of behavior and character of ones person.

Sometimes we often talk about our dreams in life. What we wanted to be in the future. But it takes a lot of courage for us to to take the many small steps that lead to bringing our dreams into reality. If all we ever do is talk about it, we begin to lose faith in ourselves because nothing changes on the external level. In this way, being all talk and no action is actually a form of self-sabotage. It’s also useful to examine our actions to see if, through them, we are following through on our words.

Yes! We can say anything we wanted to say. But most often our actions are contrary of what we said. Just like for instance, someone told you that he/she likes you. But that person doesn’t even do anything to please you or communicate with you. Do you think you’ll believe that person on what he/she said? Definitely not! It would be hard for you to believe that, right? Through his actions (that he doesn’t communicate with you) it clearly tells you that his words are contrary to his actions. And it would be easier for you to decide on what to do. You could easily say that his words have a hollowness or empty quality. Bear in mind that people often judge other people on what they’ve done instead of what they said.

With this, we can say that there are lots of evidence that wherein “actions speaks louder than words” and this varies from certain circumstances. Make this expression as a guide in your daily lives, sure thing it would be a great help.

“Preparing for a Successful Marriage”

Constructing a building requires careful preparation. It is the same in constructing successful marriage. You may say: “I want to get married”. But, have you ever try to consider the cost? And are you ready for marriage? Do you think you could handle all the responsibilities of being a husband/wife? What if there are a lot of consequences that comes in your married life, are you ready to face it? Try to ask yourself thousand times if you are ready to face the next stage of your life.

Getting married is very challenging. However, maintaining a marital relationship year after year must also be considered. A vital factor is a wholehearted commitment. The idea of a solemn commitment frightens many. Since the two of you will have to be stuck together for the rest of your lives.

But, if you really love your mate, commitment will not seem like a burden. Instead, you will view it as a source of security. You have to be physically, mentally, spiritually & financially ready when you plan to settle down. Coz it will helps you a lot in order to have a healthy relationship w/ your mate.

“Some Reasons for Staying Single

A lot of people, even though they are already at the marrying age prefers to be single in order to introspect and feel complete without being emotionally dependent on another.

Oftentimes, we thought of our past failed relationships. That we tend to tell to ourselves that we can’t find love. If you always keep on thinking this way, then probably we can’t find Love.

While others have that stereotype of the what so called “Ideal Man or Ideal Woman”. If you think that your prefernces is making you old..lol..try to edit or put some considerations..lol..just like me..lol…We always know that we can’t have a perfect person for ourselves.

Some are the “play boy or play girl” habits. They had been on a relationship wherein it ended because they cannot remain faithful to a person both emotionally and physically.

There are also some who are not yet ready for commitment and wanted to maintain their perfect body figure. If you do so, then it's up to you. Remember, you'll never be that young forever.

“Manage Your Money Wisely”

Some people have indeed developed a fondness for money & have devoted themselves to the accumulation of riches. Some have become slaves of money and have reaped tragic consequences. There is news of shootout between the police and holdapers, kidnappers etc. These are only a few examples of activities that people choose to do in order to have plenty of money. They wanted to get rich instantly without doing much effort. While some loose hope for they’ve been through hard work & then still lacks money. But, there are also who have plenty of money but then they are not yet contented of what they have. This results to corruption and abuse of power.



Perhaps we could say that “money” is the center of human life nowadays. We can't survive nor exist in our daily living w/o it and we need it in order to be used for our daily needs such as food, shelter etc.

But, don’t you know that money when manage properly can be a useful tool? Everyone of us should know how to save, make a budget, learn the difference between needs and wants and lastly you should plan for your future needs. It can provide us with the freedom to pursue the most important things in life such as a close bond with family, fiends and possibly with GOD. He should be the center of our life instead of money.

Still, in this world it seems impossible to be totally free of money worries. Therefore, it is still a must to manage our money wisely for us to be able to live peacefully, free of worries.

Take note, be contented of what you have is a must! and if you’re not, try to work hard for you to attain what you wanted.

“When to say “Will you marry me?” & “Yes! I’ll marry you!”

Whenever a person reached the age wherein they start to have their crushes. They tend to dwell on the more superficial qualities to their opposite sex. Such as popularity, good-looking, friendly and funny. But, there are also some who based their attraction on the inner qualities of a person such as being smart, talented etc. As the age changes, their preference towards their opposite sex also change rapidly. Since they already have the so called “power of perception” wherein they tend to be aware of qualities of their perspective mate such as spiritually-minded, trustworthy, morally-upright & goal oriented. They begin to have their “ideal man/woman”.



But, there are also some, who do not have the ideal man/woman preference as long as they get along well with each other. In this phase/stage of growth we often look beyond the superficial traits to answer the question “Is he/she is the one I’m looking for?”.

Before you jump into “yes” answer. It is a must for you to know yourself better. Since it would be easier for you to know the kind of person you want to be with you for the rest of your life. Knowing yourself is not an easy task, coz you need to evaluate yourself regarding your mates’ preference. What His/her attitude, hobbies, qualities, spiritual values and other factors that matters to you most.



What if you think you’ve found that person? Will you jump into conclusion that “he/she is the one your looking for?”. Such a bad idea! You don’t need to rush things. Try your best to know the person as well. His/her attitude and weaknesses, does she have the qualities that you are looking for in a mate? What happened when you disagree? Does he/she try to hurt you? Ouch! It’s a bad sign. Does he/she use abusive speech? Hmp! Another bad sign. This are only a few questions that are essential when you are about to examine inner qualities of your prospective partner.

Yes! Indeed, finding a mate is much more a difficult issue compared when you go shopping. Whenever you shop, you just take into consideration the products design, color, style & the signature. But, its different when you look for a mate. Instead, you consider the attributes that you have in common.

As time goes along, more than a few members of the opposite sex may catch your eye. But not just anyone will do. After all, you want someone you’ll be comfortable with. Someone who truly fits your personality & your goals. If you think you’ve found that special someone w/ qualities you’ve been looking for in a mate. Then don’t hesitate to ask this nerve-wrecking question of “Will you marry me?” & girls don’t hesitate to say “Yes! I’ll marry you” if you think he has the qualities you’ve been looking for.

“Why True Love is Hard to Find?”

Have you noticed about this guys? That numerous Web sites claim to offer enlightenment on how to find love. Some Web sites offers to discover fascinating & incredible secrets & learning’s on how to find love. They even have the what so called ”professional relationship experts & love doctors.”.

The topic on love is also a sold-out item in the bookstores such as an inspiring love stories in novels, magazines w/c offers different ideas on love matters even sex positions etc., some of it contains an extravagant promises. For example, one books claims to show you “how to make anyone fall in love with you” & others offer to reveal “how you can find the perfect partner in just one month”. Do you think it’s possible for the above mentioned ideas to happen? But, there are also some books which contain realistic advice that will guide you w/ regards to your moral conduct.

However, one thing is for sure, we don’t have to look for love. It usually comes to our life in most unexpected time & place. So, don’t loose hope. Always bear in mind that there is always a special person for us.

We can’t just make someone fall for us in a very short period of time such as minutes, hours etc. Love takes time to grow along w/ the trust and other ingredients..That is why there is no need to keep things in rush as if there’s no tomorrow. There is always a right time for everything. Be patient & wait for the go signal from above. Maybe God is just too busy trying to figure out who is the best for you.

All we have to do is wait and pray coz there is nothing impossible with God.

“Dating Online”

Dating sites are rampant nowadays,with this, it is very
difficult for us to determine who is serious and who is just playing
with our emotions and to whom we are wasting our time Roll Eyes.
A lot of people out there are victims of false love online, believing
they have finally found someone special who truly understands them and
sees them in a way no one has ever able to see them before, only to
find out that they were being toyed with emotionally, taken advantage
of and used.

Finding the love of our life online is not impossible and there are many success stories. But of course just like dating in person, we have to face challenges
and of course risks! and if you are prepared to face that risks and
challenges in the world of online dating, you can find a real
meaningful loving relationship.

Refrain from Harmful Gossip

Gossip can fill your life with more intrigue & can ruin your reputation as well. Many people have been a victim of harmful gossip even if it’s not true.

During the olden days, gossip was most often spread by word of mouth. Today, we are living in a world of modern technology, gossip also has gone hi-tech. A person with malevolent purpose could devastate your life without you knowing it. In just a few clicks on the internet and cellphones you’re reputation could be at stake.
But, what can we say to these gossipers? Well, I’ll tell you, they will never talk about a certain person if they do not care, some maybe insecure.

Is gossip always bad? There are instances that gossip is not always bad. It really depends on the subject matter. Specifically, if the word merely means casual talk, there maybe times that it’s not a harmful gossip. But, casual talk can be turned into a harmful gossip.

It is just clear that harmful gossip has its negative effects. So, if you think that the conversation is leading to a harmful gossip, just simply avoid to get involve in it coz it may just cause you a problem. Always bear in mind to live quietly & to mind your own business.

“To all the Single MOM! I SALUTE YOU!!!

I was raised by my single mom, since my parents got separated when my mom was 4 months pregnant of me. From then on, it was my grandparents who always helped her in raising me.

It was my mom who always provides my needs from the time I was born until I finished my studies. She really did all her best just to send me to college. Good thing I was a scholar student, that way I wasn’t a big burden unto her.

I am sharing you, this coz I wanted to encourage all the single mom here to think positive and do all you’re best to raise your kids properly. Don’t ever think that it’s a burden unto you. Instead, be thankful to God that you have your own sibling from your own flesh & blood.

In time, you will realize how lucky you are for having them in your life.

“LOVE is Indespensable”

It’s just simply amazing how people learn to love. Though. it’s a fact that humans learn to love in the first place by the example and training of their parents. Children will learn the meaning of love if, in an environment of warm affection, they see their parents feed and protect them, communicate with them, and take a deep personal interest in them. They also learn to love when their parents teach them to observe sound principles of right and wrong.

Genuine love is more than just affection or sentiment. It consistently acts in the very best interests of others, even if they do not fully appreciate it at the time, which is often the case with children when loving discipline is involved. Sometimes, they misinterpret it, and have those thoughts in mind that their parent doesn’t love them.

It is a fact, that all humans have a hunger for love regardless of their age, culture language, or race. This is the most incredible type of hunger that we may ever feel during the entire life. In the sense, that whenever we got failed on our search for love, we become unhappy. Sad to say, there haven’t been any, medicine that have been created to relieve the sadness nor the heartache that one could feel.

But there are some who tend to gave emphasis on their wealth, power, fame, and sex rather than on the human need for warm, loving relationships. Many educators stress secular goals and careers, defining success primarily in those terms.

No matter how people define love, it just proves it all that Love is Indispensable.