Tuesday, November 3, 2009

""ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS""

I know that most of you may agree with the above statement. This expression is very common to us and we often used that expression in order to express our own ideas or beliefs on a particular situation. Many people believe that this expression is of greater determinant of behavior and character of ones person.

Sometimes we often talk about our dreams in life. What we wanted to be in the future. But it takes a lot of courage for us to to take the many small steps that lead to bringing our dreams into reality. If all we ever do is talk about it, we begin to lose faith in ourselves because nothing changes on the external level. In this way, being all talk and no action is actually a form of self-sabotage. It’s also useful to examine our actions to see if, through them, we are following through on our words.

Yes! We can say anything we wanted to say. But most often our actions are contrary of what we said. Just like for instance, someone told you that he/she likes you. But that person doesn’t even do anything to please you or communicate with you. Do you think you’ll believe that person on what he/she said? Definitely not! It would be hard for you to believe that, right? Through his actions (that he doesn’t communicate with you) it clearly tells you that his words are contrary to his actions. And it would be easier for you to decide on what to do. You could easily say that his words have a hollowness or empty quality. Bear in mind that people often judge other people on what they’ve done instead of what they said.

With this, we can say that there are lots of evidence that wherein “actions speaks louder than words” and this varies from certain circumstances. Make this expression as a guide in your daily lives, sure thing it would be a great help.


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